I just hit my sister. I can’t even remember the reason anymore, it was so stupid, but I remember hitting her. She got a bloody nose, and she isn’t speaking to me now. And I don’t blame her.
Dammit, this is really tearing me up inside! I was never this violent before! I think I may need some professional help again.
I’ve got an appointment scheduled friday for my Therapist, and I just hope that this won’t end in me getting institutionalized again. Anyway, I just needed to say all this. Sorry for all this whining.
Originally posted by Exo vers 2.0
[b]You must of had a damn good reason to pop the bitch in her nose…
A Therapist? Why, your sisters, siblings fight x.x [/b]
One, NEVER call Julia a bitch again. Two, if you knew anything about me, you’d know that I love my sister more than ANYTHING else in the world. And that’s what has me worried.
there are times when i’ve wanted to hit my little brother so badly…but i was never able to. i’m sorry for all that has just happened and i hope you and your sister resolve this…
She will speak to you again, Val, though it might take some time. The most important thing now, and the therapist will help you tih this, is remembering why you hit her, so you may control the impulse, thus preventing it from happening again.
People get mad and they do things they regret. It’s a fact of life, why you’re letting it tear you up so much I don’t know. Just say you’re sorry, and if she doesn’t say anything, then it’s her problem, you’ve done all that you can.
Originally posted by Sinistral Sitting in shock never does one any good. What are the events that led up to it? I’m sure you didn’t just walk up to her and say “eat this!!!”.
I don’t know anymore, Sin. I just can’t remember.
And Sorc, I won’t talk to her. I’m still afraid I might hurt her. I know she’ll stop me first, but still, I can’t.
I agree also…if this hasn’t happened before, give both of you some time to cool off and calm down…I’ve done things like this before, and I felt a bit better afterwards, but if you know you and your sister love each other and have a good relationship, this shouldn’t be such a big deal.Go apologize and talk to her…if you’ve never done this before, then she’ll understand that something may be bothering you and you can work it out together…