Fuckin’ bitch! I lent my sister money and now she’s been paying me some of it periodically for the last year. I haven’t asked or pushed anything. She had payed $70 of the $180 she owed me, then just now she payed me $60 more and said that she paid me the last of it. Fuckin’ bitch still owes me $50. $50 is a lot right now. This even comes shortly after her barging into my room in the middle of the night (while I was asleep) for parking in my normal parking spot since there was a bunch of stuff for the remodeling in the garage where I had been parking since my car can fit int he area the easiest. I hope to God that this is her period our else I’m gonna be living in hell until I move out. From this day forward I have no little sister. There is no way I’m gonna claim that psycho bitch (literally) as a sister.
EDIT: I even kept tabs on the days and amounts that she paid me. I proved it to her, but she still won’t pay.
She doesn’t have reciepts to prove she payed you. If the tabs you have get lost, she could in theory owe you the whole 180 again. How old is your sister?
I had it all on a piece fo paper. She supposebly wrote it all down the various payments in various notebooks, I can prove it to her, but she can’t prove it to me. I don’t even want her to pay me the $180 again, I just want my $50. Needless to say, she is not getting jack shit from me in the future. Such as Christmas is coming up and it looks like she’ll be missing that. She’ll lose mroe in value for not giving me my money. I usually spend about $20 a present (This year I had a great idea for a present, but it was $30 so I figured I cut here and there and get it for her, but I’ll save my money) so after 3 occasions of gift exchanging, she’ll lose $10 worth of stuff. The funny thing is that she said she doesn’t care because I never get her anything, when it is quite the opposite. Besides our mom, and possibly dad, I;m the only one who gets her stuff on her birthday and Christmas and she doesn’t get me shit. She might take me to her work and get me in for free when she works at a movie theater, but she never gets me anything. It pisses me off that she says that I never get her anythign when I’m one of the few people who does get her stuff, despite not getting much myself (I onyl got one Christmas present last year and it was from my mom, but I still got several people presents).
I’ve been screwed out of money by friends, acquaintences, and family, but life goes on (be thankful she paid back any money at all… most aren’t as fortunate). If you get so worked up about something minor like this, you’ll probably keel over dead on the spot if you ever DO get robbed.
It isn’t so mucht he money, it is that I was nice about it. I gave her the money and didn’t tell our mom since she didn’t want out mom to know. I just don’t like being Mr. Nice Guy and then getting shit on by the person I was nice to. I lent her the money when she just moved out and bought a new car (which was stupid, and has since had to move back in).
If there is anything that psychotic band of freaks I call “My father’s side of the family” ever taught me is that family and money don’t mix. Whenever you lend money to a relative, there’s like a 85% chance you’ll never see it again.
Get a life you whiney douche. She’s FAMILY! I don’t expect my family members to pay back everything i ever loan them. If I did then my parents would owe me in the thousands. You bitch about nothing!
I lent ehr the money because she saidthat she would pay me back since I didn’t really ahve the money to lend. I could only stand to miss it for a little while. I was going to start asking next smester since I really need it for school. It doesn’t matter either way, I’ll be saving money on not getting anything for her in the future. When I actually have the money, I don’t care about getting it abck. Hell, I’ve bought stuff for her when we’ve hung out since I had the money (such as right after boot camp) and never asked or expected to get it back. However, sicne I am low on money and will probably have to borrow or take out a loan soon, I don’t like people that are close to me to pay me back. I’m also quite the opposite of you. The closer I am to somebody, the more I expect to get the money back since they should be looking out for me since I’m looking out for them.
Fine then. You can resent her for the rest of your lives. Whoever dies first can dance on the grave of the other while chanting “I owe you shit!”
You can even write down in that book, “Do not give jack shit to sister”, and underline it in red ink. In the end it’s just money. But if your sibling rivalry is anything like mine, you can hold it over her head and mention it whenever she asks you for anything.
It’s actually guite easy. She got a new job recently so we have different hours and don’t see each other that much. It is easy to ignore her. Maybe I’ll feel differently after a good night sleep. Either way, she isn’t getting shit from me from now on.
EDIT: I’m actually feeling a little bit better now. I think I’m just really frustrated and need to vent.
Actually, what you should do is just remember in the future not to lend her money. And that’s fine. Nothing should obligate you to lend somebody money because they’re “family”. But there’s really no need to hold a grudge with your sister of 50 measly dollars.
So, think of it as a learning experience. If you’re not the type of person to just give people money for the sake of charity, that’s fine, but there’s no reason to get really worked up about it (although it seems you’ve relaxed a bit by now).
But she did not take that which is irreplaceable, your life. what lesson did you learn from this? Never trust her again? do not punish for trust. If while building a house, a carpenter strikes a nail. It proved faulty by bending. Does the carpenter lose faith in all nails, and stop building the house? Then we are required to trust. Even if you are reminded of the existence of evil. Deal with evil through strength. But affirm the good in man through trust. In this way you are prepared for evil, but we encourage good. And is good a great reward for trusting? In striving for an ideal, do not seek rewards. Yet, trust does sometimes bring with it a great reward, even greater that good.