Strength of leadership is probably one of my weak points, honestly, just because I’m so used to working alone (not just on this project, but in general.)
That said, you’re absolutely right. I’ve the opportunity to take a VB.NET class in college, so I’ve a medium to force myself to focus and actually LEARN to program. I’ve been able to modify C# scripts before, like for RunUO, but never had a full comprehension of how to build it from scratch. I hope to change that because that alone opens massive doors for us–for one thing, having error-free information in a program, a la the many tools made for FF3us/FF6j, would be a huge leap forward…that whole thing with Red’s INITDATA on my page was really, really embarrassing. 
The biggest thing I think is that we keep at it. For myself, anyway, I’m teaching myself a LOT with this project–all my prior ROM-hacking projects were either build on established data (FF3us), or very small (Might and Magic III personality shrine bugfix–a one-byte change.) So getting discouraged is probably going to happen…but keep our heads up and all that feel-good New Age noise and we’ll be alright. xD