I dunno about that…I think that the emotion of emo is surprisingly the only thing it has going for it. It has much less to do with what they do, so much as it is HOW they do it. For example, Weezer was one of the more OG ‘emo’ bands, and I think their first two albums were GREAT. Now, emo is just a bunch of guys raised by their single mothers, taught to act total nerds in front of the opposite sex (or not taught to have any sort of confidence at all), and wondering why they can’t get chicks to like them while crying about it. It’s just depressing.
It sounds harsh, but actually, it was my friend who listens to emo who pointed it out to me. Here’s the exact transcript of his blog:
“Emo explained?”
On the drive up here, emo started to make sense. Why was it so big? I finally knew.
A large portion of this new generation of children was raised by single mothers. These single mothers raise their sons to be: sensitive especially towards women, everything is their fault not the woman’s, never hit a woman, this we learned was how we would be “gentlemen.” That, and lots of negative energy comes from the mother toward the absent father. This generation of men grew up without a strong male role model and so they based their personalities on their mothers. I have found that the people who enjoy emo come from families where either the father is absent or at the very least, the mother is greatly in charge. Those who hate emo have strong “classic” father figures who is a drinker, a womanizer and have still have the control over the family. (Psst! He’s exaggerating here. It’s hard to tell through his text, but this is just the way he likes to kid around)
When looking at lyrics of emo songs you can see that in their relationships the men often bring the blame on themselves. This is in sharp contrast to an older era of music, what we call “classic rock.” In most classic rock, notably Led Zeppelin, the lyrics aren’t very emo in that sense. I will use Led Zeppelin and The Postal Service / Death Cab For Cutie in these examples.
Emo:
“I am finally seeing why I was the one worth leaving”
Rock:
“You’ll look for me but baby, I’ll be gone.
This is all I gotta say to you woman”
Emo:
“Just tell me how to make it right and I swear I’ll do my best to comply”
Rock:
“Lots of people talk and few of them know, Soul of a woman was created below.”
Emo:
“It’s no stretch to say you were not quite a father, but a donor of seeds to a poor single mother that would raise us alone”
What the does future hold? Perhaps rap/hip hop holds is the answer, rap originates from the urban african american community which has had a lack of fathers for a few generations now. Perhaps the next generation will be angry because of their absent fathers instead of incredibly hurt and sensitive about it. They will however not lose the love for their mothers, many rappers do show “much love” fo’ they moms.
But yeah, I think the only saving grace of emo is its intensity, which is why I can stomach listening to the occasional Saves The Day song when my brother feels like listening to it, god fuckin’ forbid. When you remove the intensity, you get this HORRIBLE breed of Indie Rock that is just so lame, dry, and dull that it’s easy to forget that you’re even LISTENING to music.
Weezer was different cos for a while, they weren’t such lame-os about it. They had songs dealing with sex and relationships that went both ways, and not just the crybaby style.
And also, maybe it’s a bit of a stretch for me to say so, but music on the radio has always been sort of the same. If you don’t believe me, go sit in Carl’s Jr. for an hour and listen to their lame ass 50’s rock. I’d find some ridiculous lyrics to help my case, but I’m just too lazy for that. 