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Originally posted by AngelOfTheLion
Or there’s “It’s not you, it’s me,”

Apparently that’s a really really bad thing to say to a chick in her early to mid teens, when she gets rejected. Whole self esteem thing, and even still, it’s still a slap in the face. Most girls tend to think, “Well why doesn’t he like me?” “What does he find wrong with me then?” and so on. I dunno I was actually taught that in school, it’s a big no no.

I’m surprised by the number of joke responses.

Be polite, but be clear in your refusal to avoid sending mixed signals.

Just tell her why, it’s not the how that will matter but the why. If you’re truthful and honest about it, what’s the worst thing that could happen?

don’t answer that.