Your what, 16? You are going to get in to major arguements with your parents over stupid and not so stupid shit, hell I frequently get in yelling matches with my mom because I raised my voice a bit so she could hear what I had to say if I’m in another room or something. Don’t worry, hold you stance and try to make amends when your dad gets back.
Okay, time to clear up a few things:
I never said I didn’t live with my brother and father, I said I don’t GET ALONG WELL with them.
You’re right, I didn’t get the exact time. I just compared the time from when I left to the clock outside the High school, which is just a little under a mile away from my house.
Skippy, I never get into shouting matches with anyone but my sister. I fight, and verbally bitchslap people, but never shout. My dad is just not someone I get along well with, and that’s understating it.
I’m sure you’ve tried this once before, but is there some happy medium you could get to with your father so it’s not as horrid with him?
Val, if you really want advice or help of any sort from us, lying won’t help. We will be ignorant of what you are if we don’t know- all we see of you is the text you type and maybe a picture that you post. That’s it. Because of that, if say Kero (woo for using Kero as an example again) wanted to help you, but he had only seen the stories you had told that weren’t true, it’d be very difficult for him to get anywhere really.
Really, there’s no need to lie or tell stories to us as most of the people here would like to help out in some way. I don’t mean this to come off in a bad way or anything though I might have made it sound that way, I’m just saying since it seems some people are getting confused as they’re trying to offer advice.
Point. This is just wierd for me, since I rarely need or ask fro advice, and prefer entertaining people.
Anyway, it was all just some stupid argument about how I “never do any work around here, just spend all my time in my fucking bedroom, will never make it in this world…” You know, normal stuff. And if it were anyone else, I probably wouldn’t give a shit.
But when it’s comign from a 250-lb. man, most of that real muscle, who stands a good head taller than me, it’ll make anyone become scared to see him pissed off. And he gets pissed off rather easily now. he doesn’t strike me or anything, but you still get scared from the dog that barks at you, don’t you?
Well, did you try talking with him in a calm manner about it? I can’t guarantee it’ll work, but doing so definitely can help ease tentions between the two of you. It’s hard for a lot of parents to see the side of their children and vice versa. Try to look at it from his angle I guess. It’s hard for me to say what to do because I haven’t been put in this sort of situation before. I’d just recommend trying to calmly talk to him if you think you can keep your cool. At the very least, he’ll note your effort.
Well, I have to agree that people usually don’t care about someone else’s angle.
The problem is, 99% of the people think they’re always right.
So, it wasn’t just me who’s feeling like shooting someone in their face today… and being the sick bastard that I am, in the nuts just to ensure…
I’m sorry you don’t like your dad 
lots of people don’t these days.
Please reconsider your desecion to shoot him in the face, I’m sure people won’t want to visit you in jail, it’s not much fun.
Adrenaline is a powerful and distorting thing. Wowzers.
Val, why ARE you lying? If you want us to help you, us having no idea of what your problems are isn’t going to help. I’m sure the majority of the people here would gladly help anyone else.
I’ve never been in that situation before either, but try talking to him after he calms down. Just be patient and try to find out what his problem is. If you try talking to him and he ignores you (which has happened to me before), then let him cool down for a few hours.
If you want to vent, grab a copy of Soul Calibur 2. That vents stress very well.
Rage. We just need to throw away the mental limitations, and the physical limitations go away with it.
I’d be hypocritical if I started babbeling about how you shouldn’t hate. I’ve always hated my step family, and I have often wished them dead and long gone. We all clash with and hate people, there’s not a lot we can do about that: It’d be wrong to force yourself into not hating them.
As for the lying. Lie all you’d like: It’s your right to, but it also my right to mistrust you.
And as I said before, normally I don’t NEED you guys to trust me. I just prefer teling my stories.
And I’ve TRIED looking at thigns from his angle, but I think it’s safe to say that it’s hard to fight emotions with logic sometimes. This is on e of those times.
Val had the habit of making up stuff when asked about her life because she disliked talking about her reality. (I’ve known about that for awhile now.) I’m glad to see her starting to reveal the truth and seeking comfort from you people.
I hope you can, if not solve, at least manage your problems until you can live on your own, V. And remember, you can always talk to us.
So yeah, just thought I’d post this, And give people a chance to tell me what a petty idiot I am, hating him for giving a shit about me.
Ooohh attitude! Me likes!
Shut up, yosh.
Oh, and I decided that yes, will try to talk to the man, though I hate him. of course, I have to wait for him to come home first.
Originally posted by Valkyrie Esker
So yeah, just thought I’d post this, And give people a chance to tell me what a petty idiot I am, hating him for giving a shit about me.
Okay, you asked for it ^^
To tell the truth, this looks like a normal every-day- teenage angst thingie to me. Figure out something new already oO Thousands and thousands of teenagers say they hate their mom/dad/ parents, wish them death, blahblahblah. Liek toly normal. Thanks god they grow out of it. :kissy:
I often don’t get along with my dad either, but don’t give me that “oh yeah but mine is like 3594958758978789% worse than yours!!!” treatment. You’re a smart girl, if it doesn’t help seeing things from his point of view then just tell him what he wants to hear. Works perfectly well. Just there’s one point where you grow pretty sick of it, so I suggest you take some martial arts or play counterstrike or whatever like me 
Yeah, I basically deserved that, DT. Danke.
I know I’m being stupid, but still, is it normal to hold a deep hatred for your father for 11 straight years, sometimes lessening, but never really going away well enough for me to have a cival and decent conversation with him? I really dunno, but then again, this probably just makes me sound even more like the stupid, angst-y teenager. So I’ll just shut up now.
It could be just me, but I’ve noticed that simply listening to your favorite music helps relieve stress…
Or if that doesn’t work, you could take it out on a pillow, like others have suggested…
Either way, hope everything works out.